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Hi, I'm Te

Assistant Manager in Cyber Risk and knitting enthusiast, Cardiff

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My journey so far…

I grew up in Barry near Cardiff with my parents and four brothers. I struggled through school, as I was a slow developer. I did speech therapy before I was diagnosed with dyslexia. I got in trouble a lot in school, because I didn’t feel like I was very smart, and I didn’t always get the right support. I did love music, so I went to a further education college to study that. After completing a BTEC, a university took a chance on me and offered me a place on a criminology course, with a foundation year. In my first year I really struggled with my group exercises, so I was reassessed for dyslexia. This reassessment also led to a new discovery of Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), which meant I was able to access additional help, including one-to-one support and assistive technology. The university also helped me to find the best ways of learning for me, which I’d never really found before. While I was in education I had various part-time jobs, including one in a call centre, one in a shop and one in security at a train station. I joined Deloitte’s Cardiff Delivery Centre as a contractor after graduating, in the personal independence team, which ensures that our people have appropriate financial associations outside of work. I think I was hired because I had a lot of transferable skills from my jobs, which I was able to talk about in the interview.

Work that matters

I’ve had some good opportunities to develop since joining Deloitte. I built up my confidence in my first role and learnt how the business works, before moving into cyber risk, an area I’d been interested in since university. Now I'm an assistant manager in the Cyber Risk team, helping the firm to manage cybersecurity risks, procedures and policies. We help the firm to manage cybersecurity risks. Our services include advice on big projects, making sure security policies are followed, checking security effectiveness, and managing risks related to working with other companies. We also help with data protection, responding to cyber incidents, and managing any risks that might come from third-party suppliers.

I’m also the co-lead for the Neurodiversity Network, which supports people with neurodiversity at Deloitte. In my previous jobs I sometimes struggled to relate to people, so having a space where you can talk about it and be open is really important. I’ve been involved right from the start, and I’ve enjoyed watching it grow and help more people. I’m also a mum, and I had a very difficult pregnancy. During that time, I was able to drop down my hours when needed, and work from home when I was unwell. I was also offered mentoring before and after maternity, which helped me to settle back into my role.

Highlights from my week

Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday
I work from home today and set up my plan for the week. After checking my emails, I head into the team strategy meeting, where we review the tasks we’ve been working on in the past few weeks. I present to our Women in Digital innovation group about neurodiversity. I focus on the different ways neurodiverse people can present, and the different support they might need. I go to the Cardiff office for a day of networking. I meet with lots of people from the wider Deloitte Business Security team, collaborating with other teams on cross-functional projects. I do some training sessions designed to help assistant managers to move to the next level, which is part of my personal development. At lunchtime I head out for a walk with my toddler. I research some new technology and the possible risks attached. I’m currently looking at software that helps people to use data more easily. In the evening, I relax with a family dinner and a good book.

My weekend looks like

At the weekend I like to enjoy some family time, going for long walks with my dog or taking my toddler to soft play. When I have time to myself, I love knitting, which is a very good stress reliever. I knitted all through my pregnancy, which meant my son had loads of winter clothes when he was born. I also enjoy reading fantasy books and playing video games.

3 things I've learned

Stay positive

I never felt like I was good enough and always wondered why I wasn’t keeping up with my peers. I’ve learnt to embrace my strengths and keep a positive mindset.

Keep perspective

A lot of people don’t reflect back on what’s happened to them throughout life. It’s important not to compare yourself to others, as you might not be standing at the same starting line.

Be kind

It sounds simple but being nice to people can make such a huge difference, both in life and at work.

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Te's book recommendation

Where the dark stands still by A.B Poranek 

This is a fantasy novel about a woman with magical powers that her mother is trying to hide. She runs away because she feels ashamed of being different but then learns to embrace her unique magic. I love it because the character doesn’t take everything at face value, meaning she’s a great problem solver. I also think embracing your own strengths and talents is a good lesson for life.